Do Your Children Have Money Management Problems?


Many of our clients express a concern about their children or grandchildren’s inability to manage their finances. Marriage problems, substance abuse problems or erratic spending habits are common concerns for parents. For these reasons, many parents do not have confidence in their children’s ability to manage wealth, including an inheritance. To address these concerns, parents can “rule from the grave” by including continuation of trust provisions in their estate plan to assist in making sure their children’s inheritance has a lasting and beneficial impact on their children’s lives. These types of trust provisions are often referred to as spend thrift trusts or dynasty trusts.
Most of us have acquaintances who inherited money at a time when they were ill equipped to manage such newfound funds. Adjusting to life as an independent adult can be difficult in these situations as people become accustomed to a lifestyle that they cannot sustain on their own. In many cases, one could make the argument that inheriting a large sum of money with no restrictions attached at a young age is more of a curse than a blessing as it can take away ambitions that many other young adults have to be successful on their own. This predicament should be considered when setting up your estate plan.
Many people choose to leave their children’s inheritance in a trust format whereby their children get specific amounts per month or year from their trust. Alternatively, the trust can be set up to provide for discretionary distributions to meet the child’s health, support and maintenance needs in accordance with that child’s accustomed standard living. Discretionary trust provisions present unique challenges as you must name a Trustee who is capable of handling the difficult judgments that come along with making discretionary distributions from such trust. The Trustee must be able to say no to the beneficiary which can be difficult and can create conflict with the Trustee. If a discretionary trust is best for your situation, I suggest a corporate trustee be used instead of a family member so as to avoid family conflicts.
I have found that setting up a specific formula for distribution, for example a monthly or annual distribution over a set number of years or allowing a portion of the Trust to be distributed at certain ages, is a more effective way to set up your children’s inheritance. The reasons for this are as follows. First, by having your children’s money distributed over a period of years, they learn to make lifestyle adjustments over time rather than all at once. Also they learn how to deal with money a little at a time rather than in a large lump sum. Many children may make mistakes with their initial distributions but they are given the chance to redeem themselves with future distributions by making more wise choices with how they spend their inheritance. Additionally, by having the distributions paid out over a period of time, it provides a sense of legacy in the child’s mind and instills in them the importance of a family inheritance for the benefit of future generations. Trusts can be drafted to meet a family’s unique needs and goals.
There are many ways to structure a child’s inheritance so as to provide a lasting benefit. Too many parents assume that once they are gone, they have no power of how the funds are spent. More thought should be put into the process to make sure that your family’s long term needs are being met by the inheritance you leave them. Provisions can be included in your Will or Revocable Living Trust to help manage the inheritance for the benefit of your family. These provisions can benefit your children as well as your grandchildren, so as to allow the inheritance to have a lasting impact on future generations. Helping to assist with educational needs of grandchildren can be accomplished through continuation of trust provisions as well as many other worthwhile goals. When setting up your Will or Trust estate plan, you should give careful consideration to these issues to make sure that the legacy and inheritance you leave behind will have a lasting and meaningful impact on your family.
Wesley Harris is an associate attorney at Farrar & Williams, PLLC and can be contacted at (501) 525-4401 or emailed at wesley@farrarwilliams.com. Wesley can answer any questions you have about this subject.









